I hate online dating. It’s awkward and you end up spending way too much time online and the face to face time isn’t really quality.
But, to be honest, I haven’t been out on a date in a long time. And it’s totally my fault. I haven’t had time to go out and meet new people, I’m not putting the effort in.
My game feels rusty, I need to shake the dust off and get off the bench!
but that doesn’t mean that I suddenly have free time to get out there and meet new people. I need a way to meet new men in a way that will be easy, and can fit into my weird schedule.
Hm. After I get the date, how am I going to find time to actually go on dates??? I guess I can figure that out when I get there.
So for whatever reason I am drawn to How About We? Maybe because the featured daters in the column ad are always hot and have great ideas for dates. Plus you can quickly jump through people’s pictures and suggested dates and decide if you’re intrigued. That part is free, but messaging costs money.
I went on last night and just flipped through some of the Daters. Yep, there are some cute guys, that’s for sure. And some have already messages me today.
I haven’t paid for membership yet, I’m still debating the pros and cons. Yes it’s easy to meet people, and even if I go out for one date it will probably pay for the membership. But is it worth my time? I know a few people that have met their boyfriends or even husbands online.
The last time I tried online dating it ended up being a waste of time. How do I know this won’t be the same?
Obviously I am conflicted about this. Anyone ever had good online dating experiences?
Worse case scenario I might get some good stories to share with all of you!